If you really know your rays I think your personal judgment will be best. I'd never let any of my rays give birth with a certain savage beast female I have. Besides that I'd trust my others .
The female I think your referring to was always a very cute timid ray when she was minebut times may have changed?
And another question ... Why who's prego mike lol
I think my big female is - hard to tell for sure as I haven't seen any pup movement but she is getting bigger. There was definite signs of breeding before Christmas. I just have her in with the male. Other two females are in another tank. Planning on building a 750 gallon tank and putting all 4 black rays together - hence the post.