question for parents about your parents!

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WckedMidas

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Ok my father hates my sons mother and new boyfriend. hell i hate them to. Anyway. I dont say nothing bad about her or him around my kid. My kid chose to live with me. < hes in a wheelchair has cerebral palsey cant walk Im raising him solo at this point> My sons 16 gonna be 17. My father is a hillbilly from west va hes 71 going on 14 yeah i said 14, My father Hes turning into a smart mouth little punk teenager lol come to the world in diapers leave in them i guess. You no what i mean he doesnt have a mouth filter. Like me he wont stop argueing lol. Well he likes to talk crap about my kids mother and her new boyfriend. I havent got the custody finalised yet. and my dads bad mouthing her and my son runs back and tells her causeing me grief. What do i do about this. Just got done telling my mom. If my dad dont stop im gonna have to limit time and supervise the time he spends with my kid. What can i do other wise? My dad loves to argue and threaten me with what ever he can when hes mad at me. Im 34 I no i cant spend long times with my pops because of argueing . Just wondering if anyone has any ideas of what might work.
 
when he starts yelling at you, threaten to beat him up. im sure you are stronger than your pops. if you are not, use a weapon like a bat or something to make yourself more menacing.
 
when he starts yelling at you, threaten to beat him up. im sure you are stronger than your pops. if you are not, use a weapon like a bat or something to make yourself more menacing.

ten years ago i might have done that. Im being honest bout this i dont no what to do other then limit and supervise him with my son
 
basically you have to keep your son from your dad. either your dad will figure out that is why he can't see his grandson anymore and change his ways or he wont see his grandson anymore. its his decision
 
+1 to above posted by Nim..
 
This sounds like something straight out of the movie, "Monster's Ball, with the 3 characters played by Billie Bob Thorton, the late Heath Ledger and the late Peter Boyle -- Three generations of conflict. Eventually Billie Bob Thorton figured it out. He put his father in a home, but lost his son.
 
I told my mother earlyer. Hes at the age that shes becoming responsible for his actions. And she needs to do something about it. I just dont no what to do. My father is great with my son. loves spending time with him. Takeing him fishing shooting the rifle just all kinds of stuff. But him talking crap bout my kids mother is just causing so many issues. and my sons mother dont wana hear that my fathers geting old and wont be around much longer to just ignore it. Im afraid my father gonna screw me geting final custody. Right now shes agreeing with it . I cant lie its hard being a single dad.
Pic of my son at the tilted kilt bout two months back
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