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fishy12;4527372; said:
Idt I would. I wld keep friends n see how it goes. Maybe she will show obivous signs of liking you that you can use as better information to ask her out.
she is my closest friend so we kno everything bout eachother...
manlyfish;4527359; said:
still be friends just add an "with benefits" at the end
that wouldnt work out at all

LBathory;4527354; said:
sounds to me like she wants it all. i wouldn't risk it dude. sometimes when girls (and boys) have power over someone like that, they dont want to lose it. She may still reject you but will want to keep you clinging on because she can't stand to think of you not fawning after her.
I've been there myself and its not fun.
ya but then what do u do? she really ment the sorry but then why would someone want someone fawning for you for no reason and back to the comment that she is in my head all day she is.....
 
Find a new shaaaauuuutya and it will make her rlly jealous and then it will prove if she rlly likes u.
 
really??????? this isnt monster teen dating advice forum......
 
ballinouttacntrol;4527384; said:
true true but you know she likes you already. it's not like you have to win her over right? how old are you adam?

14 and no she still doesnt think i like her anymore, and before u say its a just a crush its more then that now... and where going to the same high school together so this can be a big good thing or a big really bad thing
 
ceeej31;4527362; said:
go for it, you will only regret it if you don't

exactly... think about it dude.... uve nothing to lose... everything is a gain... either she says yes... or no... either way you get to move on with your life... if she says yes then its worth it... if she says no then that just means u'll find someone else.... lol that u can guarantee....
 
Zfishies;4527388; said:
she is my closest friend so we kno everything bout eachother...
that wouldnt work out at all


ya but then what do u do? she really ment the sorry but then why would someone want someone fawning for you for no reason and back to the comment that she is in my head all day she is.....

then just keep as a friend...
don't ruin it if shes your closet friend trust me you'll regret it
 
Zfishies;4527406; said:
14 and no she still doesnt think i like her anymore, and before u say its a just a crush its more then that now... and where going to the same high school together so this can be a big good thing or a big really bad thing


Well, here's a lil secret for your teenage days. her friends are your best friends. Befriend them, talk to them, you can pump them for any information you need to know. if she likes you, they'll know. teen girls love to blab.

Good luck my friend
 
I see it too often among my friends, and it's such a waste of time being afraid. If you really like her ask her out again, and as said before by another don't fear rejection. If she says no keep it moving. There's way more women than men out there so your odds are good if you don't let things like rejection rule your way of thinking. If she rejects you create space and opportunity for other girls to spark your interest. It's not worth it fawning over her, it could literally play out a whole lifetime. I'm 32 and I've got a friend whose been fawning over another friend for at least 10 years and it's pitiful. He's spends so much time with her(she's his best friend) that he compares her to all others and just keeps becoming more enthralled with her since no one measures up. Never realizing no one could cause she has a lifetime of closeness they developed and he's never given anyone else that much time. So don't do it, it's much better to get out and meet as many girls as possible, your far more likely to meet someone who really stands out and is special. Plus it's alot more fun that way. Lol!
 
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