Adam.. hi.. been reading this post

I'm from India.. huge cultural difference but women are the same everywhere.. just thought i'd add what i think here.. I understand what you are going through.. been there in the same position some 17 years back.. see the key here is to not get confused.. what you feel about this girl is what you feel.. so stop taking advice from us.. do what you think is the best.. you go out with her or not you still win.. be calm.. collected and ask her bro.. does she come over to your place? you could prob ask her to come see your pond.. i'm sure you are more calmer in your house with your fishies around !!!???? an environment where you wont have to feel embarrassed if it doesnt work.. chill man.. you still have a looooooonnnggg way to go.. believe in it and jus ask her out.. all the best..