thanks guys, yea, california doesn't have cooling off period. they didnt' go thru with me at time of purchase about buying cooling off time or what not so don't think i have it
i emailed the guy to see if there are any other options, still waiting for him to respond. from what i'm getting from other people, i kinda screwed myself. not that i dont' like what i got, i like it, it's just that i wouldn't mind paying a bit extra per month for the EX model. it's got some features i really wanted. i think they'd be willing to do something for me but there's a definite down side to doing that. penalties or losing my sales tax/fees or having to lose out on money in one form or another to trade for an upgrade
i may just have to settle for now and maybe in a year or two I can trade it in there or elsewhere