Remember its Nice to be Nice

[Tongue33]

Allright guys as many of you have commented to me by way of pm,im and phone calls asking me where I`ve been ,why havent I posted etc..etc..etc..

Heres my deal and why I havent posted that often , What I see happening to this site like i have seen to other sites, People make posts and others seem like they want to have a good time by de-railing them or making fun of that person because its a stupid question ! I will tell you that there is "NO" stupid questions , if someone makes a post asking a question its because they dont know ? We have many many great members with a ton of knoledge and information they can give to anyone about almost anything ! I understand that some people get bored and think to themselves , I can get a laugh at thier expence !

Well its not cool !​

I have also seen many people get on others about thier typing , misspelling ,bad grammer etc ..... its not cool either !

I`m not an admin or anything like that, I am friends with one of the top admins
on this site and he is a great guy who wants nothing in return but to enjoy this site , learn more about the hobby that he loves ! and to fill up his house with all the fish he can ! But first and foremost all he wants is for everyone to have a good time and to enjoy MONSTERFISHKEEPERS.COM

what im trying to say is :
IF SOMEONE MAKES A POST, RESPECT THIER POST AND IF YOU CAN`T HELP
LEAVE IT ALONE ! IF YOU THINK ITS STUPID , LAUGH AT IT IN THE PRIVACY OF YOUR HOME BUT LEAVE IT ALONE IT WILL GO AWAY !


In closing to IT sum up !
LIKE MY MOTHER TOLD ME WHEN I WAS LITTLE , IF YOU CANT SAY SOMETHING NICE DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL ! ITS THAT EASY !

I agree with this , but am also human and hope none of you would leave because of what someone elses view of a good time is...

I am here mainly to gather info and get my own side of the hobby going.. And this is the most informational site i've found.. And if someone runs off because some idiot posts something someone doesn't agree with we all lose.. So it's not only the dumbass that post's the remarks or gets in the arguements that is the one taking away from this site.. It's also those with the info that people like myself need to grow in the hobby that might as well be comitting these offenses. Cause trust me I've only been on this site for a few weeks and my fish that I love! Are much happier because of people like you and your knowledge passed to people like me...

So please don't lose faith. Put it aside.. I have no control over someone elses opinion and they are free to post it.. If it offends me I will pm them.

But PLEASEdon't take your knowledge from me by leaving. Like I said I view that as working together with those same people you are frustrated with.. You leave the site Or don't post when you have the answer, It's lose lose...
Personal Opinion Of coarse... And thanks for commin back and stickin around

From me, My Wife and our fish family!!