Well well well not much people r giving full answers to ur question. When u have ray it is best to start out with a motoro ray but the retic as longa s the water is clean and he is eating then great!

also u don't need a sump. As long as u have good filters which cleans the water then okay. Ur food u r feeding ur ray with is awesome and the people are right switch it around. Chemicals u got that covered. Tankmates! discus is okay but u need very very clean water because discus schools so i think u will get atleast 3 of them and stingrays can go with anything pretty much as long as the fish is out of the rays way and they don't fight. Best fit tho to me is a arowana. Little expensive (get silver cheapest and most common go around 20 dollars a pop depending on the store and area.) I can also tell if ur ray is a girl or boy if u give me a picture on the tail and bottom of the ray. Backside more direct. What else.... I think that is it. U seem like u r going pretty well. Hope for a update when ur ray comes in and pm about the male and female thing easier on me