RO is safe to use when you are using it in combination with your tap. Straight RO does not contain minerals necessary for fish to metabolize. Pure RO out of a bottle should have a Ph of 5-6 and a Kh of zero. Once aerated, the Ph should come up to 7, while the Kh will remain at zero. If your RO water is 7.8 out of the bottle, I question whether it truly is RO water. Perhaps you were stating that the Ph was 7.8 in the tank after adding the RO water. If this is the case, your tap water likely has a high Kh and Gh, and will require more RO water to bring the Ph down.
If the Dovii keepers say 8.2 is fine, I would save the money and stop buying RO.