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KansasSunfish

Jack Dempsey
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I have debated whether or not to share this for a week now but I think I should. I know there are some of you that will immediately judge me, but try to remember everyone makes mistakes. And I made a big one. If talking about it can help someone else not make the same mistake, then it is worth any kickback I get from this group.

Last weekend I was doing a top off of the sump on my 1100 gallon tank. I had run a hose into the sump, and because my sump has a built-in overflow that goes to the floor drain, are usually don’t have to worry about it overflowing. I turned the water on at the spigot, and Wayne about working on other things in the fish room. Typically I would let the water run for five or 10 minutes, filling the sump and doing a very small percentage (2% or less) water change with chlorinated water, instead of using the chlorinated water like I do for large water changes.

Perhaps you already see where this is going. As the sump was filling, my best girl came downstairs to the basement upset because one of her Bettas had gone missing. I ran upstairs with her and proceeded to try to figure out what happened to the fish. As it turns out, it somehow gotten out of the tank and ended up on the floor. It had been there for a while, it was mostly dried up, and so I said about trying to console her on the loss of her fish.

There is an old saying: “Sometimes Fish Die.” It’s not a great saying but I think it fits the situation. Long story short, I completely forgot about the hose running into the sump of my 1100 gallon plywood aquarium. It was four or five hours later before I suddenly remembered that I had left it on. I panicked. I ran down the stairs, hoping the whole time that I was mistaken. By the time I realized my mistake, I had killed my entire school of 20 beautiful red finned tinfoil barbs that I had grown from lfs size to eight or ten inches each......

Before you comment, just know that I already realize this was a very stupid mistake on my part. The kind of mistake that I thought I was way past making at this point in the hobby. I can’t tell you how hard it was for me to dip them out one by one and throw them in a bucket for disposal. I try to remain calm and kept reminding myself it’s just fish. But I was proud of that school, and it meant a lot to me.
 
I have debated whether or not to share this for a week now but I think I should. I know there are some of you that will immediately judge me, but try to remember everyone makes mistakes. And I made a big one. If talking about it can help someone else not make the same mistake, then it is worth any kickback I get from this group.

Last weekend I was doing a top off of the sump on my 1100 gallon tank. I had run a hose into the sump, and because my sump has a built-in overflow that goes to the floor drain, are usually don’t have to worry about it overflowing. I turned the water on at the spigot, and Wayne about working on other things in the fish room. Typically I would let the water run for five or 10 minutes, filling the sump and doing a very small percentage (2% or less) water change with chlorinated water, instead of using the chlorinated water like I do for large water changes.

Perhaps you already see where this is going. As the sump was filling, my best girl came downstairs to the basement upset because one of her Bettas had gone missing. I ran upstairs with her and proceeded to try to figure out what happened to the fish. As it turns out, it somehow gotten out of the tank and ended up on the floor. It had been there for a while, it was mostly dried up, and so I said about trying to console her on the loss of her fish.

There is an old saying: “Sometimes Fish Die.” It’s not a great saying but I think it fits the situation. Long story short, I completely forgot about the hose running into the sump of my 1100 gallon plywood aquarium. It was four or five hours later before I suddenly remembered that I had left it on. I panicked. I ran down the stairs, hoping the whole time that I was mistaken. By the time I realized my mistake, I had killed my entire school of 20 beautiful red finned tinfoil barbs that I had grown from lfs size to eight or ten inches each......

Before you comment, just know that I already realize this was a very stupid mistake on my part. The kind of mistake that I thought I was way past making at this point in the hobby. I can’t tell you how hard it was for me to dip them out one by one and throw them in a bucket for disposal. I try to remain calm and kept reminding myself it’s just fish. But I was proud of that school, and it meant a lot to me.
Sorry about your loss, with that size aquarium you have many options, what are you interested in. If I had that tank I would do some peacock bass, a silver aro, some catfish like triginus, oscars and a school of wide bat silver dollars
 
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I killed a whole pond full of koi like this once, I was just topping off the pond after I lost a few inches. It was summer and I had been topping off the water level like this frequently. I was adding start right as I filled the pond but I walked away for a few minutes to grab something inside. Long story short, I forgot and I came out to a flooded backyard with dead koi and comet goldfish everywhere!! I was only able to save one of my fish by rushing him inside and placing him in a tank for a few hours. I got lucky and was able to save my largest koi, since then I’ve put a system on my house that removes all chlorine and hard water. It’s expensive upfront but pays off in the long run. Your appliances also last a lot longer.
 
I’m so sorry for your losses:(
This is a common pond problem. I’ve been guilty of forgetting and forgetting to set a timer to remind me to turn the water off. It is one of the sickest feelings when you remember.

Your aquarium is beautiful.
 
What a heart breaker.
Shot happens. I'm more impressed that you considered your girl's situation and emotional state a higher priority than the fish chores you were doing.
I'm sorry you lost your fish. And don't try and fool yourself that they are only fish. Be sad about it. If you weren't attached to them and didn't care and didn't mourn, what's the point in having them in the first place? Your girl needs to see you being sad, and being ok with it. Then she will see you accepting it and moving forward with more knowledge and growth. Sometimes fish die! The words may not carry the weight, but your actions will!
Good luck, you have my condolences.

PS- a couple fire eels would look totally rippin' 8n that tank!
 
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