I just reread my last post, sorry if it was a bit cranky. I admit, I'm still a bit of a noob when it comes to rays, I'm reading and learning as much as I can. I read that about silica, and was just reiterating as I don't have actual experience with silica and rays. So I apologize.
This is not the best picture, but it seems to show the most detail of the 3m color quartz. If you look real closely, you can see that its perfectly round little sphere's with no jagged edges.
and this is the best picture I have of the quickcrete silica sand
The silica sand, when rubbed between your fingers, does have a grit to it. The sand won't cut you, but there is a sharpness to it. The 3m sand doesn't have that, its smooth to the touch.
Like I said though, I'm still a bit of a noob and don't have experience with rays on the silica sand. I was going to use it, but just didn't want to risk it after reading the sticky.
With all that being said, I've found the silica sand to be lighter. When I gravel vac, I pick up more of the silica sand than I do when I gravel vac the 3m color quartz. The 3m color quartz sticks to the rays a bit. They can get it off when they want it off, but it does stick a bit. I also have polyfill in the first stage of sump, and when I replace it, it's always a blackish color, which I presume is from the 3m color quartz. However, I usually always find silica sand in the filters on the tanks that I have used it in.
Also, the silica sand never seemed to bother my TSN when he was in a tank with it and would lay on the bottom.
So there, thats about everything I know about the two kinds of sands.