dont freak out about it kiddo. both my aro's have scars, my neighbor down the street has scars, delgado has scars. u needa spend more time with ur aro, mine is so tame it is no longer jumpy at all. i can have my hand in the tank n she will swim through my arms jus for fun. my smaller aro tries to "match up" to the bigger one, it used to be super jumpy til i put them together.