update. now ive noticed he/she is changing. it appears to be growing quite rapidly and its backround color has become really golden. the spots underneath the lateral line have become a little darker but there still aren't that many. Also the dark patches that run horizontally for the legnth of the fish have become quite a bit darker. i know its only been three days, haha, but i am very suprised about how fast the color is changing. does this mean its a male?