Most people finally find out the sex of their Oscars by observing them when the female start laying eggs. If you have got a pair that are the same age then the chances are, they will become sexually mature at around the same time. Once you have seen a female Oscar laying eggs, it is very easy to recognize. It is oval in shape, rather blunt and whitish Iin colour, a little bit like the end of an egg. If the other Oscar is a male and he is sexually mature, his sexual organ will protrude from underneath him. The easiest way to describe his "member" is it looks rather like a little spike or thorn. There is a distinctive difference between male and female sexual organs, you cannot confuse them.