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I was supposed to be working over the summer and never got called in. So no. The pets are like a money pit for all the money I don't have, and I can't ask Mike to keep funding my tanks when we're trying to save up for school in a month and a house simultaneously. And I'm desperate to move at this point, that loan money can't come in fast enough...
 
_Sushi_ said:
I was supposed to be working over the summer and never got called in. So no. The pets are like a money pit for all the money I don't have, and I can't ask Mike to keep funding my tanks when we're trying to save up for school in a month and a house simultaneously. And I'm desperate to move at this point, that loan money can't come in fast enough...
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Well just focus on the future, I know its hard but try not to dwell on the depressing stuff, soon you will be exactly where u want, just keep urself busy! And most importantly have some damn fun!




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Having fun is part of the problem, I'm cooped up all week without a car in this house, where I really don't want to be. Mike doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything on Saturdays when he's off, even though that's SUPPOSED to be our weekly date night. He manages to wiggle out of whatever he says we're going to do, and I'm about at my limit with him too.
 
_Sushi_ said:
Having fun is part of the problem, I'm cooped up all week without a car in this house, where I really don't want to be. Mike doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything on Saturdays when he's off, even though that's SUPPOSED to be our weekly date night. He manages to wiggle out of whatever he says we're going to do, and I'm about at my limit with him too.
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I used to be like that cuz I was tired from work, my girl sat me down and gave me ultimatum, it was either comprise or be without her, luckily I love her a lot and decided I could be a better bf if I tried, so I did and all is fine, I give her time and attention and she does the same. It's just hard to get thru to guys we don't pick up the little signals and signs u try and give us, we need a straight up talk, hopefully he loves u enough to change for the better. After all someone in a relationship is there for a reason, hopefully!

Imo if he doesn't give u Atleast one day a week that's messed up. Unless he lives to work, but in this economy a job is essential!




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He's HERE on his days off, but he's sitting across the room, or won't get out of bed to do anything. Before he started this job we went out just to get out of the house, and now his excuse is that he's hardly ever home. That is no excuse to sit in a completely different room tinkering with online books, and I end up spending all day with his brother who doesn't even like me! He didn't put in a movie like he promised, and spent a grand whopping total of the car ride to his house and back with me. Then when we were supposed to take the boy to see fireworks, he puttered and grumbled around the grocery store (making a 30-minute trip last an hour and a half, and I ended up missing half my list), and we completely missed them. I've given him the ultimatum before, and he got better (he was no fun to deal with at all, just plain mean), but now he only cares about how tired he is. I'm trying to ride out this job, but August 17th seems so far away at the moment....
 
It's not that he's a bad guy at all either; we have a great connection, we can talk about anything, we feel like we're great together, he treats me great, all that important stuff... I'm just tired of his attitude. All the great things about our relationship are what's keeping me going so far. And while I love the knucklehead, I really don't like him lately.
 
_Sushi_ said:
It's not that he's a bad guy at all either; we have a great connection, we can talk about anything, we feel like we're great together, he treats me great, all that important stuff... I'm just tired of his attitude. All the great things about our relationship are what's keeping me going so far. And while I love the knucklehead, I really don't like him lately.
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Yea that's not good, see if he loves u enough he would do anything for u and that means anything. Sometimes it takes a loss for someone to appreciate something again, he shouldn't be leaving u feeling awkward, but then again if u put up with it why would he change? Ya know?

I've been thru a lot with my gf, addiction, court, debt, family deaths, etc and she has always stuck by my side, I owe her the world and it will take the rest of my life to pay her back. I guess what I'm saying is going thru things alone is hard and that right there gives me appreciation.

Ok getting kind of deep lol

Maybe try couples consulting if u really want it to work.


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Next week on PDofOL: Bex beats Mikel with a sharp, pointy stick! We've been through a lot in the last 12 years, especially this last year, I've spent most of our relationship homeless and bouncing from place to place, and the brat has been by my side through all of it. We've had some simple problems (like this one for example), and some that almost destroyed our relationship, but we've both decided that while we can live without each other, we really don't want to. I got a glimpse of what I've been missing on Saturday night, and I just want things back to normal. Less bickering (we butt heads a lot on a good day lol), more real conversations, more quality time, he's getting more serious about our future too. I'm going to re-adjust his attitude again, and that should get us through this next month... I'm just used to practically living together in the hotel a couple months ago, I hate seeing him once a week. :(
 
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