shyness

  • We are currently upgrading MFK. thanks! -neo
tankbusterlover

tankbusterlover

Plecostomus
MFK Member
Nov 21, 2006
141
25
61
Quebec,CAnada
I have a little problem. I am quite a shy person. People think i am weird but in reality i am quite down to earth and intelligent.

Anyway the brother of the girl i flirt with is in my drivinng class. He is with his high school friend and they make fun of me because i am quiet and shy. I am afraid this will kill my dating game with his older sister if he talks to her about how weird i am.

They are high school and frankly i don't mend well with them. I am thinking of passing this driving lesson and i am in the process of finding a good paying job.

Anyway i try really hard to work on my shyness. I try really hard to push myself to go talk to women especially this one i like. No matter what. I won't let my shyness stop me from getting what i want. a driving license,a good paying job and a family of my own.
 
tankbusterlover;5006409; said:
I have a little problem. I am quite a shy person. People think i am weird but in reality i am quite down to earth and intelligent.

Anyway the brother of the girl i flirt with is in my drivinng class. He is with his high school friend and they make fun of me because i am quiet and shy. I am afraid this will kill my dating game with his older sister if he talks to her about how weird i am.

They are high school and frankly i don't mend well with them. I am thinking of passing this driving lesson and i am in the process of finding a good paying job.

Anyway i try really hard to work on my shyness. I try really hard to push myself to go talk to women especially this one i like. No matter what. I won't let my shyness stop me from getting what i want. a driving license,a good paying job and a family of my own.
Click to expand...

Just be yourself. Be down to earth like you say you are. Thats all that matters. I was shy in my freshman year in high school, but got over it when I started talking more and met new people. I became more social in sophomore, junior, and senior year because I had more confidence.
 
I work a lot thought. For exemple my uncle been sick and i plowed snow for him all winter. That is something that works for me. Wel they are 16 and i am in my 20 so of course i don't want to make friends with them. So i just follow my class.
 
I was shy as a kid, I kind of broke out of that shell in highschool though. I have ex girlfriends who thought I was stuck up before they knew me. It wasn't that I was stuck up, I was just shy too.

Just practice at socializing and you get better at it. People have always told me I seemed like I was unapproachable though until they got to know me. Just be yourself, that's the bottom line. Don't try too hard because then you end up not being yourself.

Everyone's wired differently so don't worry about that
 
dont be yourself. its you they you are ecscaping you. just go around asking everuone to for a date and get denied 10/10 times and you will feel good at the end of the day. problem solved
 
There is a line at dating high school girls when you are out of high school. It's just creepy... Once they're out of high school no problem, but it's just odd before.
 
yea, just make sure they are 18

my first kiss ever was to an 18 year old senior and it turned into a 15 min makeout session

i was 14 and so naive,...... i remember afterwards that my lips were sensitive and felt slightly swollen
 
If there is one thing I learned in high school, don't be yourself; be like everyone else. Not only will you fit in, but you'll have people to talk to and hang out with, and you wouldn't be considered a social outcast. People don't love you because you are different, they love you because you are like them.

I'm sure theres some kind of fish analogy i can come up with here, but im lazy.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
MonsterFishKeepers.com
Top Bottom