Li, it's awesome that you are finally able to share this with us, thank you for trusting us all with this. Sorry to hear about the terrible events of your past.
I am truly sorry li
my heart goes out to you and yours,and my prayers to your brother and father may god have them with him and give you and your family the support you guys need.
There is place where your heart gets robbed of so much that you can hardly keep ahold of anything else, Li.
nobody would expect a critically injured person to be carrying on as usual.