"How would their personality/behavior be altered by being in a community style setup?"
Lemme count the ways......
I keep Vieja, this is how they are. A tank full of Amph's would probably be different. A tank with Parachromis would be a waste of time, so I don't even consider it (I kid).
with just 2-3 fish in a big tank, they'll all cruise around more, faster, stretch out a little more. When they decide they don't like one of their neighbors, with just 2-3 fish in a tank, their fights seem much more likely to be long drawn out fights that end with one in the corner the next morning with no scales.
As you add more fish to the tank, they move around less and less because they don't want to bump into a neighbor. fights in a heavy stocked are less serious, though.
I've had Vieja in a 125 so heavily stocked that they just all faced the same direction and didn't move all day. when one did move, the rest would move too until they were all adjusted.
Africans don't do that. I've seen them in tanks in restaurants, and heavily stocked, they still stay very active. CA Cichlids get much less active when heavily stocked.
And this is full grown CA Cichlids. I've noticed that CA Cichlid fry can be very heavily stocked in a grow out tank until they're about 4-6 inches--then the killing starts.