I wouldnt worry about the fin stabbing,people pick them up on occasion but there is not much of a need to.The thing with them is that they are nocturnal so you wont see much movement out of them during the day.The stabbing is only a defensive action and a lot of different cats do it so just get what you like and try not to disturb your fish.peewee;2846487; said:thanks for the advice sir..what would be a better substitute for the raphael? the one that doesn't stab..