Trying to do the right thing at work is hard. I sell appliances for a living and run into that all the time. Primary example is someone who comes in looking for a front load washer, assuming they are the only great washers out there, mostly because they don't know that there are top-loading machines that are just as efficient. This isn't much of a problem most of the time, but if you put a front-loader into a trailer, it'll shake all to hell, and if it's a little old lady trying to get in and out of it, it can be a bit difficult. I try to tell these people, but then they buy the front loader and complain about the house shaking or it being hard to get into and want us to take it back no questions asked. Doing the right thing at work always bites me in the ass.
In the case of fish, it's a shame, but the original poster is accurate in that this happens far too often. I've only been part of this hobby for a year and a half, and when I got my first tank, this is what I was told. "Let it sit for a few days to get things ready for the fish, then come on in and we'll help you out."
I came back a few days later (I didn't even know what cycling was) and bought close to 30 juvenile fish of all varieties for my 29 gallon tank. What a nightmare. I almost gave up on fishkeeping entirely then. Nearly all the fish died. For nearly a year and a half, I had one of the survivors until I donated him to the store.
I think that's why a lot of stores don't bother telling people these things. They're probably hoping that some of the fish will come back since they will adopt any overgrown fish no questions asked, and then they turn around and resell them.
There is only one local fish store within 30 miles of my home that I'm aware of, and they only do saltwater. Mind you, it's great that they do it, but no local stores for freshwater at all. They're all common chains like Petco.
I do have to give my local Petco credit though. They do pretty well with their fish, and their staff members are surprisingly knowledgeable. The ones who aren't have always been more than willing to say "I really don't know. So and so is the expert with the fish." I'd rather someone tell me they don't know than just pretend and hope I buy something.
After all, if you buy too many fish because you weren't informed and get frustrated, you'll never buy any more.
I just wish I had more aquatic knowledge, because I'd love to open up a fish store... JUST fish. Do it right, you know? Problem is, I don't know nearly enough about the varieties of fish out there, and even though I'm convinced that I could do well at running a small business, there is a lot of overhead and utility costs to something like a fish store.
Then again, what business out there IS cheap to start off?
At least My competition would just be Petco and Petland. Petland was the one that screwed me originally by not giving me good advice. Sure, some could argue that I should know what I'm doing, but people go to pet stores not just to buy pets, but to get advice about buying what pets and why.
Hrmm... I love ferrets too. Maybe I'll open a Fish and Ferret store!
