ok here is you problem. in your first and second pic your return lines go way to far under water. Your tank will siphon until they get down to your lowest return line outlet. drill a hole in these lines just below where you want your water level. then fill your sump about 3/4 full with the water just below your bulkheads(so none is flowing into the sump) now kick on your pump and bingo. just adjust the flow with the ball valve