I've read all 6 pages. That's highly unusual ime that the fish reacts to water change like that but it definitely is connected to the WC.
I think jardini could have been fine at ph 8.8 if it was stable.
I don't quite understand why the tank pH is 7.6 if the tap water is 8.8. It's possible but it'd be nice to have a guess or two as to why. BTW, is the tank water pH at 7.6 by both the normal-range and the high-range pH tests?
In any case, I'd make sure that pH is stable, let it be 7.6, or 7.0, or 6.0, or 8.8, during the week, before, during and after the WC.
If needed, take everything that affects pH out - coral, ceramic, seashells (all of these raise pH), accumulated fish waste and peat moss (this lowers pH), set aside buffers and other chemicals (except for water conditioner... you do use water conditioner right?) - in other words start your experiment / study from a clean slate and keep measuring the pH 3-5 times a day during the week and before WC, during WC, and especially several times more after WC.
If the pH is stable and the fish is still doing it, then it's not a pH issue and we need to look further.