Hey guys thanks for all the responses, Sorry i took so long to reply, ive had a bit going on.
So most of your are saying the Syn is more likly to be male??? I always thought male myself but i shared pics on facebook groups a few times and everyone there always said female, No big deal just interesting... I do love the look of syns with a big lump on their forehead.
Any most of you guys are just saying keep the Syn alone? I hear what your saying it just i dont really wanna have a big tank with only one fish. In theory could aggression be lowered in a larger tank?
I was kinda thinking on the same lines as gourami by adding a couple of med to large fish at the same time in hopes of spreading out the aggression from the syn. My JD (male) also likes to be the boss so is alway pretty keen to fight the syn....untill he looses and get beat up (if the fighting has started when im not around) or untill i stop it. So also hard to know how he would react? That why i was learning towards the Oscars mentioned. Hoping the oscar wernt to aggressive and just used there size to dominate??? Man i dont know.......Dam american....I love them but they sure can be hard work