Researching more in MFK on polleni groups/pairs and I think I'd be better off with a single fish to minimize aggression.... ?
One would more than likely be fine, there is always the off chance that you'll get a hyper aggressive one. But if you go to the wet spot take a few minutes to see how the fish are acting. If you see one acting really dominant, and that's not something you want, then obviously don't get that fish.
Females can be as aggressive as the males, but fortunately are also as beautiful.