My female motoro eats what has to be damn near her weight in food everyday (ghost shrimp, guppies, driftworms, krill, shark and ray food, and occasionally beefheart) how the hell is she still so skinny, I barely see my male eat and hes fat as all possible get out only thing he does is pick off a few shrimps once in a while. Im pullin my hair out here any thoughts? maybe would it be more effective to lighten the feeding sessions and do them more often or is it better to feed them full once a day?both are approx 6"the female the smaller of the two about 5" id say she seems to be growing since i have had her but today especially she looks way thin! So as is usually the case I find I can usually help others solve problems but when it comes to my own I prefer to scream obscenities and ask the masters. any input welcome, hell Ill take the sarcastic advice too! well when in doubt do a water change right? ill be back soon.