So, the good news is, I processed the changes with my wife this evening. After catching her up on the details of my thoughts and how I planned to make it all work, she asked “so what’s the catch?” I said there’s no catch, just keeping you in the loop for transparency sake cause it will require time to do all the driving about etc. with everything paid for out of my accumulated fish kitty (no family living money). She was like “ok cool!”
So I said, ok cool then

Let’s go!!