it's just you. lol
My opinion: Get rid of the Africans and the Tilapia. Your tank setup is much more geared toward CA/SA. So heres the stock I would have (still considering that you are upgrading to a 200+ tank)
1x Spotted gar
1x Green terror
1x Blood parrot
1x Ghost knife fish
1x common pleco
And most people will tell you that this is still overstocked (which it probably is) but it will be better for you. Current stock and rate of growth you will have fish loss due to aggression and high nitrate/ammonia levels in a few months.