Nah, that would be too easy. Everyone, to some extent, wants things to go they want them to more than they want to watch things go and respond appropriately. For example, I have tried repeatedly to have nice plants in my tanks with Vieja. I've told myself every excuse--"the fish are still small", "if the plants are big enough, the fish will just accept them as too big to eat", "fish don't eat anubias and valisneria", "that guy on youtube did it, I can, too", etc. I"ve done plants 3 times in 2 different tanks--same result every time. Algae covered plants and then stems picked clean by the fish. I'm sure I'll try it again, because--well, "Amph's don't eat plants". Now, I know that they'll rip em out and play with em, and tear em apart for fun, but I'll still probably try another bunch of valisneria and anbuias tied to stumps.
It's hard to accept "either/or" in fishkeeping. If you want plants, you can have discus. If you want big cichlids, you can't have plants. If you want Jag's, you need a very large tank. If you want a 2 foot umbee, you can't have a community. Some things some people can only learn from experience.