female only acts lethargic and gets pale if in a tank just her and the male,ive watched the interactions and from looks of it he just kinda nudges her here n there but she wants no part of it and only swims away.if i put her in my aggressive ca community tank shes fine,she actually darkens and holds her own against the toughest in there.so far things ive tried have been making water changes more frequent,raising the temp to the proper spawning temp,feeding more foods like bloodworms.nothing works lol hes very interested in her but seems she cant stand him,idk why.there was one time they kinda were going through the breeding ritual and then something happened where she just started the whole lethargic sitting in a corner thing all over again.he leaves her alone for the most part,few times he'll approach and display which she never responds