My tds right now is 13ppm, less than one degree kh. I figure that if I am going to be tweaking ph at all, I want at least a little buffering capacity. 1-2 degrees kh would be ideal in my mind. Also, from what I have gathered, even soft water fish need some dissolved mineral content for the osmotic process. I don't want to deprive them of any micro nutrients they may need in their water.
As far as the aggression, the pandas are certainly more pushy than the amphs. I haven't seen any real aggression though. Most of the time the two species school together with problems happening only at feeding times. I haven't seen any tattered fins, eye clouding, hiding, or anything from the amphs that would suggest true aggression is going on. I think it is important to note that my amphs are about the same size as the pandas. I think if they were any smaller there might be a problem.