I think some people will ask the same question repeatedly, hoping to get the answer they want... when someone misguided tells them it's okay, they're off and running.
Jenni;5021487; said:I think some people will ask the same question repeatedly, hoping to get the answer they want... when someone misguided tells them it's okay, they're off and running.
Dissy;5021437; said:That's not necessarily true. Some people do research on the internet, can't find exactly what they're looking for, or find someone that's already done want they *want* to do (but haven't because they're unsure), so they come here and post threads asking for help, or suggestions.
However, answers to threads such as those seem to be lacking responses - I expect because those that are here to supposedly "help" forget that not all of us have the same experience they do, nor do we have the time to search over 5000 threads for an answer. Instead, they think we're being irresponsible, lazy, or what have you, so we just move off, and try once again to find out own answers.
The threads that do get answers don't seem to have their actual questions answered, but instead get cookie cutter answers about water quality.
Don't get offended.. That's just my take, having tried to get information from a total of 3 boards.
I may know not to put an Aro in my 125 gallon tank, no matter how badly I want one, but I don't know what size oscar is good to put with a Dempsey, Firemouth, and Convict all 3" or smaller to allow for the least amount of fatality while growing in my tank....
Sorry if I've offended anyone.
RajaRojoDiablo;5021451; said:You haven't offended me, neither has Aquanero.
Aqua has missed my point and I don't feel like wasting any more energy trying to break it down to his level.
RajaRojoDiablo;5018849; said:I find 90% of the time the crappy looking tanks have like 1 or 2 cichlids in a 4 or 6 foot tank (The exception is a breeding pair.)
No one complains about discus tanks having so many in it....why?....because they look amazing.
My suggestion to anyone asking "is my tank over stocked?"....well check your water parameters and you will find your answer, not by asking some of these "experts".
Peace!
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RajaRojoDiablo;5019593; said:No one said I was over stocked.
There have been a lot of questions lately asking can I put "X" fish or "X amount of fish into "X" size tank.
People reply like...1 single JD is fine in a 55 gallon, or no way should you keep 3 Oscars in a 90. Well if the person is asking, then they more then likely already have these fish in the tank, it isn't a proposal.
You know it is true.....so don't discourage these people...help them out with some of your knowledge and tell them if you are going to keep 3 Os in a 90 gallon, then these things are a must...water changes, good filtration, don't over feed, check water parameters, etc....
RajaRojoDiablo;5019676; said:Like I already stated, these people aren't making a proposal...they are already in the situation.
Not everyone has the $$ to upgrade and make their mistakes right and I don't agree that your giving best information....your giving your giving your opinion and what you personally would do because:
A...you had a bad experience (your GT jumping to his death, get lids yet?)
or
B...you heard someone else say it
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RajaRojoDiablo;5021451; said:You haven't offended me, neither has Aquanero.
Aqua has missed my point and I don't feel like wasting any more energy trying to break it down to his level.