update on my mom and sad one
- Thread starter livebearerfreak
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I feel for you CB. They should spend more time with you instead of yelling at you constanly when you probably know what your doing. They will just continue this because they think your rebelling against them and yell more. So just talk to them in a strong voice and tell them whats up with you and you can't tolerate them ANY MORE!!
well i cant spend time with my mom cause they think i anny her and all... im really deateing if i should tell my mom waht the doc realy saidthat she ahs 2 weeks to 6 months to live or u know... just cause i want her to know.. but then my family besides my mom and gramma will kinda like disown me kindaand start b*tchen at me
Don't do it. I can't stress enough that it will make your mom worry and be very depressed for her last weeks. Plus you don't want your family to yell and hate you. It will make things worse than they already are not just for your mom but you as well.
my aunt said that if i tell her she will kick my ***. and grampa and his gf will b*tch at me. and my uncle will be mad for awhile and so will my gramma but they get over it fast. so i dont now what to do...
ya but dont u think she has t rights to know whats goin on with her head and all? they already think i told ehr cause my mom is depressed, and there mad cause they think we talked about her 2 weeks to 6 months. and all i and my mom talked about was her gaurdion angels.
It probably won't make any difference. My mother-in-law died last Oct. from cancer. The doctors told her, her children told her and she didn't want to hear it, just tuned them out. When they took her to a hospice it started to finally sink in and she started to accept it. By that time she was on so much pain medication she really wasn't aware most of the time. Sitting deathwatch was the hardest part, because you will be torn between wanting to be there at the end and hoping it happens when your away. I hate to put it this way but if it is going to happen pray that it goes quick for her sake so she doesn't suffer needlessly. Try to keep it calm with your family, if she thinks there is trouble she may try to fight and hang on longer than necessary.
