hey so i have 3 synspillums that are 4.5 inches and i need to sell 2 but i wanted to keep the best looking but they all look the same , my question is if i sell 2 can i expect 1 i keep to look just as good as the other 2 , like i wanna grow them out to keep the best looking but will they eventually all just look the same , or should i keep a male and sell the other 2 , how do i vent females are 0o male are oo i forgot , also if u had the choice would you sell he aggresive one and keep the calm one , what would u do because everyone knows im overtocked, thank u