Since you mentioned JD's... I have a male 7" and female 4" in a seperate tank. They were rescues. Ive had them for about 4 months. I never see them. If they see me enter the room they will dart for cover and lose all color (they are beautifully dark and speckled on the rare occassion I see them before they see me). Ive tried to give them plenty of caves and decor in their tank but they just will not interact with me whatsoever. The plan was always to put them with my O, but I will be honest I don't like them at all. I have tried to sit in front of the tank, lights on, lights off, move slowly, etc. For whatever reason they will not accept my presence. And because of that and the fact that they aren't even breeding, I'm thinking that rehoming them will be the best option for them and for me..,