What do you look for in a girl/boy?

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shes got to be smart (I want a partner not a child),
independent (not constantly clinging to my arm),
a good body (Im shallow so what),
common interests/tastes (movies books art design etc),
forward (Im not much for playing strange love games),
has to be good in bed (dont kid yourself sex is a major part of a relationship),
kind (I dont like the b****y types),
clever (has more to do with sense of humor then anything),
cant be too high maintenance (your a big girl take care of yourself),
she has to like my friends (because they will be around alot),
She has to be able to deal with me and my insanity (were all a little crazy sometimes),
and she has to love me and I have to love her
 
for me a guy has to be....

funny
family oriented
cares about other people as opposed to just themselves
will be close to me and my partner but also give me my space
they have to accept my obsession with with (this is a deal breaker)
makes me a better person and i make them a better person
doesn't have a bunch of baggage
when i first meet them, staring at my boobs doesn't earn many points
responsible
wont make me go and do a ton of boring things that i don't wanna do
im not big on religion, so they can't be too into that
i like guys who don't care about how they look
i like guys who do random nice things for a girl, its so sweet
can't smell bad! i hate that, ugh
can't be a green bay packers fan, me and my family cannot allow that
i don't think i could be with a guy who listens to rush limbaugh

thats it for me :)
 
Ang;3827860; said:
this is sickening.

boobs boobs and more boobs. I'm glad i'm married. Clearly there arent too many decent guys left to be had.


edit: but to each his own i guess.

in a man i look for:

unconditional love.

if he has that for me, everything else falls into place.

heh, it just annoys me when guys wont stop looking, all guys seem to like big boobs, im cool with it, but they don't get any of that till they meet a few other requirments, like not being a pig, but that doesn't mean there aren't any good guys left
 
Chinese or japanese (preferably)

Smart.

funny, good sence of humor.

Has a bit of a emotional side, presents a challenge and i Kind of like it.

family oriented as im a family man, love my family.

cares about my needs and wants and not just her own.

wants to be with me, do things with me but won't be too clingy as lets face it we all need space.

cant be obsessed with meterial crap ei. handbags, shoes, clothes.


She has to accept my love of animals and that they take up quite a bit of my time and money, im also an avid bodybuilder and that takes up allot of time and money too.

no baggage , if shes going to be with me she has to forget the past, past bf's etc.

has to have a decent phisique, nice eyes and most importantly, a great smile.:)

A woman that takes care of how she looks but is not obsessed with it.

Im not religouse as such but i do live by a code ei. be a good man, take care of your family, be honorable, honest, loyal, kind, put others before yourself, dont be obseesed with meterial possesions etc etc. She can be any religion and go to chirch and and if she really wanted me to go with her i would but only once lol.

Responsible and reliable.

will do things i like to do and in tern i shall do the same with her.

will excpet that im a smoker and won't try to make me quit ( i only smoke 3-4 a day and once every month or so ill have a cigar.) but im willing to compromise by smoking outside if she dosnt want the smell in the house.

I like woman who are thoughtfull and kind but can also show emotion and ofcourse.... passion.(that includes good stamina:D )

A woman who is not obsessive or insecure.

She can have male friends( most woman do anyway) it really dosnt bother me.

who can tell me she loves me, with my last gf it was years before she told me as she is chinese, was raised in the country and had parents that never showed her love or compassion and becouse of that she was emotionaly closed off but over the years i changed that , we changed each other and one day we were sitting on the back deck enjoying a drink and she looked at me, smiled and spoke soflty saying "i Love you" .....ill never forget it.

An Independent woman who has a decent job.



.... i think that covers it lol
 
I want a girl
With a mind like a diamond
I want a girl
Who knows what's best

I want a girl
With shoes that cut
And eyes that burn
Like cigarettes

I want a girl
With the right allocations
Who's fast and thorough
And sharp as a tack

She's playing with her jewelry
She's putting up her hair
She's touring the facility
And picking up slack

I want a girl with a short skirt and a lonnnng jacket......
 
Nothing beats a strong confident girl with some fire in her attitude. I'm a guy that loves it when a woman challenges me, keeps up with me and even has the ability to take me down a few pegs. Someone that I can have a good fight with and doesn't get bent out of shape. Someone that makes me try harder to better myself and expects it. I'm a strong, strong minded, athletic and driven guy, I want a girl that will push me and isn't afraid of being pushed back.
 
Good cook, smart, cool, wonderful, good looking, cool personality, into alter/punk/rock, musician? :D I love chicks that are in a band :) Artistic, and sweet i guess. lol
 
TRAITS:
Confidence (BIG ONE) - if you like yourself, others will too.
Social - Not afraid to talk to strangers.. in casual conversation.
Witty - has to have a good come back, I'm a pusher.
Tolerant - I push, again.
Emotionally connected with himself - the rest is a piece of cake..

PHYSICALITY:
Not puffy - can rock the jeans..
Nice lips - well you know..
Tall - in the 6' range

I'm tired of thinking .. but basically passionate about himself and the things he does.
 
studd muffin;4833139; said:
Wow lol. This thread is timeless :grinno:

Fixed it for you :)
 
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