What do you look for?

[Natural_Born_Killer]

has to be hot and a monster fish keeper who would love my fish and help me with regular water changes

That would be a bonus

oh and cleanliness.....im ocd when it comes to that.

That is where my bf and I are a bit opposite, he is very tidy and I have a tendency to be slightly on the messy side :S

I think its handy in a relationship when one person is the more tidy and the other the less. It creates a good balance

 

[pwmin]

I hate weird looking noses. That's honestly the first thing I notice, lol.

 

[haynchinook334]

I hate weird looking noses. That's honestly the first thing I notice, lol.

and crooked toes.

 

[Natural_Born_Killer]

I hate weird looking noses. That's honestly the first thing I notice, lol.

LOL... I really see that too

Cannot stand a big nose, crooked nose, anything not nice nose.

 

[BigDaddyMagnum]

lmao.... i didnt know women were such nose-ologists.....

 

[Pattiable]

Liz, so funny.

My fiance (who also happens to be my dream man) is sarcastic, respectful, perfect with my child, intelligent, loves animals of all sorts (& doesn't mind having a million of them), strong work ethic, strong sense of family, challenges me on a daily basis, motivates me (cuz I'll be as lazy as I'm allowed to be), clean but not seriously OCD about things, not too controlling (I like a little), is GORGEOUS, creative (artist & just had 1st book published-yay!), sensitive yet still very manly, big heart, a good listener, and trustworthy. We ALWAYS have fun and can respect our differences in opinions.

I do not surround myself with people who actively use drugs even those who say they just use "recreationally" (past user/recovering addict is okay), drinks too much (or even more than just occasionally), are violent and/or DISHONEST. Can't stand dishonesty.

 

[Natural_Born_Killer]

lmao.... i didnt know women were such nose-ologists.....

LOL...

it cannot just be a woman thing!

Oh, and feet... must have clean feet. I cannot stand it if I see a man with dirty feet. Also, clean hands/finger nails.

Hygiene is so important.

Liz, so funny.

My fiance (who also happens to be my dream man) is sarcastic, respectful, perfect with my child, intelligent, loves animals of all sorts (& doesn't mind having a million of them), strong work ethic, strong sense of family, challenges me on a daily basis, motivates me (cuz I'll be as lazy as I'm allowed to be), clean but not seriously OCD about things, not too controlling (I like a little), is GORGEOUS, creative (artist & just had 1st book published-yay!), sensitive yet still very manly, big heart, a good listener, and trustworthy. We ALWAYS have fun and can respect our differences in opinions.

I do not surround myself with people who actively use drugs even those who say they just use "recreationally" (past user/recovering addict is okay), drinks too much (or even more than just occasionally), are violent and/or DISHONEST. Can't stand dishonesty.

Very lucky lady, as am I

Its nice to have a person in your life that both challenges and understands you. To know when to give a kick up the ass or to leave it on the couch.

 

[Red Devil]

Men strike back!

How many men does it take to open a beer?
None. It should be opened when she brings it.
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Why is a Laundromat a really bad place to pick up a woman?
Because a woman who can't even afford a washing machine will probably never be able to support you.
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Why do women have smaller feet than men?
It's one of those 'evolutionary things' that allows
them to stand closer to the kitchen sink.
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How do you know when a woman is about to say something smart?
When she starts a sentence with 'A man once told me....'
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How do you fix a woman's watch?
You don't. There is a clock on the oven.
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If your dog is barking at the back door and your wife is yelling at the front door, who do you let in first?
The dog, of course. He'll shut up once you let him in.
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Scientists have discovered a food that diminishes a woman's sex drive by 90%.
It's called a Wedding Cake.
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Why do men die before their wives?
They want to.
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Women will never be equal to men
until they can walk down the street with a bald head
and a beer gut, and still think they are sexy.
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[Natural_Born_Killer]

Hahahahahahaha, love the last one!!! Classic !

 

[arkmann]

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Other than that...

...I gave up looking for specifics. I found out through experience that if you found out your significant other or GF by looking for her, you we're probably looking too hard. You should let a pre-relationship run its course and let it develop to whatever it might be, be it friendship or a monogamous relationship.

My GF and I wasn't really looking, just happened to bump into each other at university and it went from there. We both found each other, not really looking for anything and we're now best friends and lovers and pretty much compatible with everything else.

She always says "no comment" when it comes to my my fishkeeping so that's an A+++ to me.

I really don't get the overly emotional side of women but I have learned how to deal with it.

Can't deal with naggers either. I'll be out of the relationship within a day if she suddenly starts nagging when she never did during the whole time prior to the yapping...