he or she is mean lol it dont eat fish either it piles them up on top of each other in a corner when i 1st got it it was my 1st cichlid i had no idea i had it in with about 12 other fish i was gone 1 hour came home he was swimming happily wiggling al over at me as i walked up to tank in the back right corner was all 12 fish piled perfectly up on top of each other. and every feeder i ever put in he kills em immediatly but stacks em up in the corner. he loves me i put my finger up to glass he will come over n rub the glass he lets me pet him to if i tap n hes in log he come out fast right to me just a wiggling.