i dont know if you remember but about a week ago i bought a male convict smaller than my female looking for a pair. They are 2.25" and 1.25" about. The female is relentless she wont let him out of his cave and she just bullies the heck out of him. The ripped up his fins a bit and every once in a while will not bully him and just swims past him so he thinks that is is ok for him to show off in front of her. She just gets madder and beats him up some more. What should i do to help pair them, or should i just give him back to the pet store and get a larger male (bigger than the female).