a word of advise for in the future, get in before the drop G/F's come and they go its one of those things and someday you may find somebody to stay with.
if your only young there will be plenty more.
Make your new goal showing her you are tough and do not need her. Sometimes, woman are driven away by men who fight to hard for them over time. Let her see you are happier without her. It will drive her crazy inside...Meanwhile...you will see u are happier without her. Definitely forget about her and don't take something like that back.
As far as what to do? Enjoy life...let the small things like this go.
Better to find out before the wedding,lots of peeps get stuck in a lousy marriage then have the legal system to contend with in addition to the emotional issues.Count yourself lucky to be rid of a two timer before it got complicated and move on
brotha, care for your fish, and your hobby, and yourself. if u look back it only gets worse. it must be affecting you a lot as you even made this thread about her.
i was with my girlfriend for 3.5 years. we did everything you did. talked about marraige, kids, all the gravy stuff. then some time last year in july we jus broke up but still hung out for months after(which does make it harder when she actually leaves) 1 day she jus dissapeared. i love my fish, i love my car, and i love my friends. it all works out
It is only worthwhile being with someone who loves you. She obviously did not love you enough, so you're obvioulsy better off ( even if at the moment you don't feel it ).
Someone will come around who will love you and all things you love..and life will go on, and you will look back and be glad it happened...
MOST women are gold diggers this day and age and are looking for the man with cash.
Make cash and you control you're destiny. Date as many women as you want to once you have cash and sort out who you want to keep around and who you don't.
The GOOD WOMAN is the one who doesn't know you have money and wants to be with you anyway.
I'm not poor and talking out of my *ss either!
P.S. There are some good women left out there so please take it easy on me ladies! LOL
Us women, well....we suck. That's the plain and simple truth.
It may not feel like it now, but you're actually lucky. Imagine if you would have married her and then she showed her true colors. Breaking up is hard, but divorce is both hard and EXPENSIVE.
Look at it this way. You're lucky. If it wasnt going to work it wasnt going to work. A break up is a hell of a lot easier than a divorce. I would tell her to piss off and just don't speak to her anymore. It works for me. I dated a girl for 3 years that effed me over and that was it. I haven't spoken with her since and it was about 6 years ago. As far as I know, she might be dead and I don't give 2 lumpy peanut decorated ****s if she is. It's tough at first but after a while you forget that they exist and it makes life much easier. You get to see how *****y they really were.
Now what are you waiting for? Hit the bars and go get a fish tank.
You'll be just fine! Now you are single you can come and go as you please....priceless. I'm your age with 2.5 kids. I love staying at home ALL THE TIME!! Yeah right my girl goes to work at 4 till midnight 5 days a week we dont see each other at all i work till 4 so my whooooole day is work and kids.... oh yeah and no booty! It was alot "cooler" back in the day. I love my kids so i am content...Get a baby, blue nose pit and raise it to be a house dog that would help the quiet time in the house!!
