That makes sense but I bought this alone and it started out black when it was little / these are images from 6 months ago
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If that was 6 months ago that's definitely a female it barely grew. You can get a male at full size by a year like 10-12 inches or more.
My female flowerhorn barely grows and I got her for free and she is ugly waiting for her to fade or something lol











