If you have problems with wood causing your pH to drop to worrying levels then your water needs more hardness to give it better buffering capacity to resist such pH swings. My tap water is incredibly soft (rain water, essentially the same as RO) and I have large quantities of wood in my tanks. A few handfuls (or a few kilos in the case of the big tank!) of beach sand that is 90%+ crushed shell provides enough of a buffer to keep the pH stable. If my tap water was harder it wouldn't be an issue.