d20monsteroscar20, You did the best thing...and you shouldnt let it get you down....take it as a compliment as these guys were obviously jealous and didnt have the balls to confront you in any other way about it other than petty name calling. Bars bring forth nothing but testosterone @ beer actions....Show your girl she is more important and treat her right without getting bent over the comments and she will realize you are a better man. Take it from me...bar brawls lead to two major things other than showing your the tough guy....trouble that lasts well beyond that night and more than likely future fights with the guy and his friends....police/fines. Its respectable to stand up for yourself and what you believe in, but having common sense and the ability to walk away takes alot more...be responsible and save the energy for your new girl 
As for the racial name calling...you have to realize we live in an ignorant society...no matter your race there will always be a derogatory name for you by some ignorant f#ck, whether you are black,white,latino,chinese,indian,and so on. It is a minor infraction in a society of such problems to get yourself down about and you must remember that most who use name calling have nothing else they can muster except the old racial slur.
You da man..next time somebody gives you $hit and calls you that fine choice word and you actually want to take it to the next level without throwing the first punch...simply respond by saying "at least I know I am a ______,your just a misfire on your moms leg" That is sure to get you a response from any bar trash who likes name calling
Dont sweat it and dont get down on it...as for the friend who added his 2 cents...he is not a friend.
As for the racial name calling...you have to realize we live in an ignorant society...no matter your race there will always be a derogatory name for you by some ignorant f#ck, whether you are black,white,latino,chinese,indian,and so on. It is a minor infraction in a society of such problems to get yourself down about and you must remember that most who use name calling have nothing else they can muster except the old racial slur.
You da man..next time somebody gives you $hit and calls you that fine choice word and you actually want to take it to the next level without throwing the first punch...simply respond by saying "at least I know I am a ______,your just a misfire on your moms leg" That is sure to get you a response from any bar trash who likes name calling
Dont sweat it and dont get down on it...as for the friend who added his 2 cents...he is not a friend.