Where does it end, will I ever be satisfied?

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As a kid a friend got me into fish keeping in middle school. I was the epitome of a bad fish keeper. If it lived 6 months it had a good life. I didn't do water changes I just cleaned the filter. I had a tank in my room a 30 gallon tank and a 55 gallon tank in the family room. I had rope fish and irridescent sharks and gouramis and pacus and mbuna and everything just always died and I mowed the lawn and cleaned a bathroom and went back to walmart to spend the 7 dollars I made on as many fish as possible. I didn't ever research fish at all I just spent small sums of money continually I had a under gravel filter as my main filter that is how bad I was. I had many good pets that survived my horrible ways, a rope fish that lasted 4 or so years. A black skirt tetra that lasted probably 6 years a channel cat that made it 2-3 before being released into a artificial pond in a near by park(I now know never to do that!). I had a tinfoil barb that made it to adult size in the 55 gal killing everything but the tetra, rope and channel cat. My brother had a red zebra that refused to die as well, it even beat up his snapping turtle he kept it with. Oh I was a real terror and I resent my ways with fish back then. I had lots of animal pets and I was not this neglectful to any of the other ones just my fish. I graduated high school and left the hobby. and all my pets behind save my ball python who I snuk into my dorm.

I met a guy in the dorms that had a 65 gallon in his dormroom he had a few fish in there, some random assortment of cichlids. All his fish had killed each other and then I embarked on research to find a good inhabitant for his tank. His first fish to go into the tank after meeting me was a green severum. I still have that severum today, it is named hulk and is over 6 years old. Any way this tank in his dorm room inspired me, we became friends and I began researching fish and how to keep them alive. The next year I moved off campus and started two tanks a 40 gallon african cichlid tank and a 30 gallon hex community tank. Despite my research and good stock selections disease was a dog without a quarantine tank I was constantly battling disease like it was my job. I eventually got very proficient at treating more common disease due to this fact. Ich is not a disease to me any more, lol its a condition of fish keeping. That year I built a stand for a 110 gallon tank I would buy for the next house I was moving to My next 3 years I spent in a house with 5-9 other guys that had more tanks than occupants at any given time. My hobby was infectious. Once I got the 110 up everyone wanted a fish tank. At any rate I had 4 tanks myself for a time but then consolidated to 2 again a community and African tank. I acquired a brackish eel and some monos that took up residence in the African tank. I moved back to my parents and was considering getting a 3rd tank for breeding something and a friend said, hey why go half way... he knew a guy who's father had been a breeder. He had passed on and left a small collection of 50 or more tanks behind that needed to be relocated. We picked up a bunch of tanks for a real good price if you wanna see that projet check it out :

http://www.monsterfishkeepers.com/f...00-My-fish-room-renovation-project&highlight=

Any way I'm getting to the point. I've recently bought a house and one of my major motivators was this hobby, its eating away at me. I always need bigger or better. I need a 600 plus gallon tank and yet I don't I've spent most of my spare change on fish I've diverted interests away from tech and media and I'm full on obsessed. Is there ever a point where you are satisfied, not burned out, just satisfied? I can't figure if the whole thing comes from the need to build things or the need to keep things or if its a combination.

Fish keeping scratches so many itches its for the hobbiest in me. The DIY is an amazing experience from building stands to building filters its a blast. Aquascaping is so much fun it gratifies the designer in me. Also my favorite and least realized obsession up until now has been integrating aquariums into a living space. I've always wanted a tank in a wall or something to that effect where it looks like it belongs less like a tumor of beauty occupying good floor space. Then there are the fish. I'm never satisfied. Fish are like friends, lol, you can never have to many as long as they are good, lol. So many experiences to be had.

I just needed to get it out there is all. How do you guys feel about it and feel free to share an overly long history of how you started and got to where you are in the hobby.
 
LOL, control the urge.
 
I think you just gave my life story, are you stalking me!!? haha
I also started out a terrible keeper, and last year moving into the dorm I really started my obsessive behaviors. We have at one time 4 tanks in our room and 2 in our commons. Even attempted to setup a tank in the lobby of the dorm (they werent having it)
Now having my own apartment, I went out again buying a 150 full setup, and have since started building my monster wet/dry sump system with PVC overflows... (obsessed with building as much as I am keeping the fish)
I have a 30 gallon with BGK, GSP, Lionfish, Turtles, I call it my girlfriends tank because she keeps the "pretty" fish in there. My 150 is my S/A tank, its almost already stocked to capacity. I plan to start my 500 gallon stingray pond build IN MY KITCHEN in the next few months
I am going tomorrow to pickup my first saltwater 72gallon bowfront for the living room
I spend every last dollar on these fish, this is insane
I know its "self control" not spending so much energy/time/money on the hobby but it just draws so much interest of mine.

Then again being obsessed to fish is always a better addiction that meth or some other drug right? Yea..... thats what I'm gonna keep telling myself...
 
All forms of addictions/compulsivities are the same. Wether it is cigarette, fast food, hazard game, compulsive buying, sport or fish keeping, it always permits the user to take some distance from something painful. All humans lives with some kind of addictions, no one lives in perfect equilibrium. It is just important to be conscient of those paterns and make sure they help you by making you feeling good and don't ruin you; you might need to go in rehab for abusif fish keeping if you decide to buy a tank instead of food for yourself or you spend the university saving of your children on a rare fish.
 
The way I started off was one 10g tank...that eventually turned into five 10g tanks. Over the years, I've had many fish from Bettas, Guppies, and Mollies to Arowanas and RTCs. At one point, it was too much for me with all the small tanks all over the house and all the 100% water changes every 6 months (I know...horrible), but you eventually learn as you carry on. Five tanks eventually dwindled down to 1 tank again. And then I decided I was going to get a "big" tank. I saved up for a 75g tank at which point I had overstocked tank with Cichlids, Knives, and Catfish. Found MFK and learned a lot and got even more addicted when I saw a picture of a Datnoid for the first time. Found out that Bichirs weren't as aggressive as they looked. Pbass weren't as ugly as I thought and were true monsters;) Over time, I went through a lot of different fish and couldn't decided on what fish to keep as I wanted to try them all. At this point, I found myself with a Silver Arowana, Indo Datnoinds, Knives, and Pbass...all in the 75g. When it came time when I thought they were getting too big, I would sell them and/or trade them in.

I thought to myself if I will ever find that perfect fish that I can settle on. Obviously, tank size also being an issue. I eventually ended up with a 75g, 50g, 29g, and two 20g. After a year, tanks were becoming neglected since the tanks were all over the house and I was getting too tired with doing water changes on all of them. I was getting burnt out again and decided I needed to break down tanks for me to enjoy them. 5 turned into 3 and then 3 turned into 2. Later, I tried for just 1 tank, but it seems that I always end up with 2:screwy:

I bought a 120g and still have the 75g running. Stock are mainly Dats, Bichirs, and a Knife. Knife fish have always been a favorite of mine so I know that I will always have one. Dats I fell in love with the first time I saw them (on MFK:)) And Bichirs are addictive. Pbass are fun and I hope to get them again, but not right now.

So...to make a long story short(er)...I decided to save for a 240g and 150g and use the current stock I have as these are the ones that satisfy my Monster Fish Keeping lust. It took over 20 years to know what will satisfy me, but there are some that just can't be satisfied;)
 
Sad to say it does end... its called death. But until then you always want bigger and better for your aquatic friends.

As a teenager I grew up with a multitude of fish tanks with my largest being only a 40g. I too tried to raise just about everything. I had natives in one, goldfish in another, African cichlids, an oddball tank with things like elephant nose, baby whales etc and of course a SA/CA cichlid tank. These poor fish never really got the care they deserved, it wasnt as if I would kill them off due to bad care, I just constantly changed stock and they would get traded back into the pet store. I never really got the full fish keeping experience, that is until I got a Midas who was the most responsive fish I ever owned. After his death I got out of the hobby for many years. In fact it took about 20+ for me. Now I am setting up a 210g, my fish are all healthy, well cared for and thriving. So the hobby never really gets out of your blood.
 
I’ve kept a plethora of tanks since I was young. Like you, I was a terrible fish keeper. I remember we had a 55 in the living room for 5 years, no one ever changed the water or vacuumed the gravel! A few fish actually lived the full 5 years, and a few committed suicide and jumped out! About 5 years ago I had a bowfront tank, and I inherited a Jack Dempsey and a female convict. Then I had plans to move, so I ended up getting rid of all those fish. Ever since, I have been on a hiatus from the hobby. I recently got back into it as I wanted something to do as I was out of work for an injury. I learned much from this site, as well as another forum, and I don’t think I’ll ever be satisfied. But I do have to prioritize. What do I need more, food for myself or other things to better my health or another fish tank? I think tableau hit the nail on the head when he said that you have to make sure your addiction doesn’t ruin you.

Another thing is my living space is a bit cramped with only 3 tanks, but if you are absolutely devoted to the hobby- you WILL find ways to make another tank fit.
 
I lived in a trailer with my fiance, where we had a 5 gallon tank with 2 goldfish in it.

When we bought our house, we went out and bought a 150.

Then came the 1500 indoor koi tank, the pond, the 240, 180's...

I now have over 60 tanks.

We have only lived in this house for 2.5 years... And we are thinking of moving because we have run out of tank room. haha!
 
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