1is better for me. What this thread will tell you is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and this is what makes life so interesting, we all just like different things.
I'm not a pure white stickler so I like 2. But 1 looks like it just started breaking. Might be just as spotted in a few months. Parents could give clue as to what to expect. You can't go wrong
You like eclipse go 1. Want more TI looks go 2. Want my opinion? Get both
I think you should be fine. Not a big size difference. Plus females usually grow faster. So they can catch up potentially.
However always be ready to divide and separate. It's a constant thing for me. Can't predict ray behavior. Never know who will need a stress break or to heal up from some bites.