Thanks for the replies and stories everyone. It makes me feel better that I'm not the only one having this issue. I added the sand and a female parrot. It helped him out a lot. Not finger chasing but growing some balls now. It seems like I just need to be more patience with him. Here's a crappy pic of the 2.
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