Any woman that will hold your "thing" while you do aquarium maintenance is worth keeping happy. By the way, props for being able to do aquarium maintenance while she's holding your "thing"! Before we got married, I set up a tank in my wife's apartment with a leopoldi stingray. I lugged buckets of water, equipment, and food twice a week to her apartment, and then worked on the tank for 2 hours while she watched tv. A year later we got married and I got to move the stingray into my tank. :>)
Haha, she's a keeper alright. I need to secretly film her feeding her axolotls for you guys to see. She talks to them and scolds them when they bite each other. Its actually the cutest thing I've ever seen.