Woman "what we mean" (Niko this is for you:) )
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that may be what you mean, but here is what i think and do when those phrases are muttered.
"Fine." this is the word i hear when the women has given up hope and decides its easier to just give in rather than try and win.
"Five Minutes!" I think this is used by both, i say 5 minutes whenever i need 30 minutes as well.
"Nothing." I know that there is something wrong, but if you say nothing, i will pretend nothing is wrong. This is much easier than trying to figure it out, eventually she will bring it up when I am doing something important anyways, results end in her giving up and saying "fine"
"Go Ahead." alright, i'll go do it. other variations is "you go, i'll just sit at home all night alone with the kids"
(Loud Sigh) sounds kind of like a yawn, must be bored, needs to find more things to do.
"That's Okay." equals permission, if its not OK, then she would tell me its not OK
"Thanks." your welcome.
"Whatever." as in "Its Whatever you decide, you know whats best"
"Don't worry about it, I got it." Great! i didnt want to do it anyways.
"Fine." this is the word i hear when the women has given up hope and decides its easier to just give in rather than try and win.
"Five Minutes!" I think this is used by both, i say 5 minutes whenever i need 30 minutes as well.
"Nothing." I know that there is something wrong, but if you say nothing, i will pretend nothing is wrong. This is much easier than trying to figure it out, eventually she will bring it up when I am doing something important anyways, results end in her giving up and saying "fine"
"Go Ahead." alright, i'll go do it. other variations is "you go, i'll just sit at home all night alone with the kids"
(Loud Sigh) sounds kind of like a yawn, must be bored, needs to find more things to do.
"That's Okay." equals permission, if its not OK, then she would tell me its not OK
"Thanks." your welcome.
"Whatever." as in "Its Whatever you decide, you know whats best"
"Don't worry about it, I got it." Great! i didnt want to do it anyways.
she apologized....I said for wht?and she said for acting that way and then started yelling at me that shes not a drunk.so i just said"fine"
After being married for 13 years I've come to see some of these things differently. For example:
"Fine".. This means many things and often on hearing it is it best to give up rather than fight it. Even if you have zero Idea what it is about just say " Your pretty" this somehow counter acts it...
"It's Nothing BUT" Get the couch warmed up and stock up on some alcohol as it is going to be a long night...
"We need to talk" This is a que to leave she really does not want to talk just wants you to go away..
"Whatever" I disagree with the OP.. This means your winning so keep fighting until you get a "fine" then just say "Your pretty"... Your off the hook from there and can get in some good make up "snuggling"
"Don't worry about it, I got it." yup dangerous but hey she said she wanted to so remind her of that.. When you hear a "fine" say "your pretty"....
"How do I look in this?" This is very very very dangerous and you need to say "Your pretty" very honestly even if you do not think so... If you fail you will get a "It is nothing BUT" and you will end up in the doghouse for the night or longer..
"That's Okay.": Run... run like hell it is not OK nothing is OK and your going to suffer. Get prepared as all hell is about to break lose. Sometimes a gentle proactive "your pretty" will reduce the pain.
"Fine".. This means many things and often on hearing it is it best to give up rather than fight it. Even if you have zero Idea what it is about just say " Your pretty" this somehow counter acts it...
"It's Nothing BUT" Get the couch warmed up and stock up on some alcohol as it is going to be a long night...
"We need to talk" This is a que to leave she really does not want to talk just wants you to go away..
"Whatever" I disagree with the OP.. This means your winning so keep fighting until you get a "fine" then just say "Your pretty"... Your off the hook from there and can get in some good make up "snuggling"
"Don't worry about it, I got it." yup dangerous but hey she said she wanted to so remind her of that.. When you hear a "fine" say "your pretty"....
"How do I look in this?" This is very very very dangerous and you need to say "Your pretty" very honestly even if you do not think so... If you fail you will get a "It is nothing BUT" and you will end up in the doghouse for the night or longer..
"That's Okay.": Run... run like hell it is not OK nothing is OK and your going to suffer. Get prepared as all hell is about to break lose. Sometimes a gentle proactive "your pretty" will reduce the pain.
I had a tiny girlfriend (92 pounds) for several years. I had a weird ability to make her change her clothes by saying "those pants make your ass look fat". Amazingly she never got mad, she'd just turn around without saying a word and go change. There wasn't an ounce of fat on her but her female circuitry wouldn't let her be convinced of it.Polypterus;2577611; said:
