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catfish said:
no its not
it only works short term and unless all you want is ass then yea thats a great way to go
Yeah, that's a bit unusual, but obviously, not impossible. I dunno, i would have to agree with "that girl" in some ways. I mean, i guess it's just that older guys have already done the whole "party, get wasted, f**k around" thing you know. Most of the time! I have known some 30 odd year olds who head bang along with the teenie boppers. Hmmm, maybe a perv.! EEWW! Any who, also, typically, older guys have settled into more "grown up" jobs, instead of fast food gigs. Which in itself, shows maturity, and dicipline on their behalf because of the added demands higher up jobs require you know. For me though, it differs. I mean, i have known some men older than me, that were worse (maturity) level than my 10 year old cousin!! And i have also known men younger than me that blew me away with their take on life, over all attitude, and so on. (sadly, some were young-in's, and I could only have a friendship with them, as I am not about to kiss the steel for some 17 year old ya know!!!) But I dunno, what can you do? be mad she doesnt like you? I wouldnt do that, at least not infront of her, some girls really like it when guys want them (even when they(THE GIRL) want nothing to do with them). My ex best friend was like that. She always made it a competition with her and me ---- so annoying. She was mad because I was modeling, and so therefore she just assumed all the guys would want me, and she got really pissed!! She would go out of her way to ruin my relationships, screw as many guys as she could,then brag about it, and spread lies about me to everyone!! Some girls just don't know when to give it up. LOL, and now, i can "brag" about how many yeast infections the little trollup got!! 
So yeah, she may like the fact that you are hurtin, so DON'T SHOW IT DUDE!!!!
--EMI
So yeah, she may like the fact that you are hurtin, so DON'T SHOW IT DUDE!!!!--EMI
water_baby83 said:Yeah, that's a bit unusual, but obviously, not impossible. I dunno, i would have to agree with "that girl" in some ways. I mean, i guess it's just that older guys have already done the whole "party, get wasted, f**k around" thing you know. Most of the time! I have known some 30 odd year olds who head bang along with the teenie boppers. Hmmm, maybe a perv.! EEWW! Any who, also, typically, older guys have settled into more "grown up" jobs, instead of fast food gigs. Which in itself, shows maturity, and dicipline on their behalf because of the added demands higher up jobs require you know. For me though, it differs. I mean, i have known some men older than me, that were worse (maturity) level than my 10 year old cousin!! And i have also known men younger than me that blew me away with their take on life, over all attitude, and so on. (sadly, some were young-in's, and I could only have a friendship with them, as I am not about to kiss the steel for some 17 year old ya know!!!) But I dunno, what can you do? be mad she doesnt like you? I wouldnt do that, at least not infront of her, some girls really like it when guys want them (even when they(THE GIRL) want nothing to do with them). My ex best friend was like that. She always made it a competition with her and me ---- so annoying. She was mad because I was modeling, and so therefore she just assumed all the guys would want me, and she got really pissed!! She would go out of her way to ruin my relationships, screw as many guys as she could,then brag about it, and spread lies about me to everyone!! Some girls just don't know when to give it up. LOL, and now, i can "brag" about how many yeast infections the little trollup got!!
--EMI
dont get me wrong, im not mad at her.
but it seems she alittle lost about what she wants. and she seem ( through my perspective) shes going the wrong way.
i think she given some Ques that shes interested in me but i dunno, im not sure how to react to it, i guess i should (in a non obvious way) show her that i want her.
oh and on that last part, im a man, i show no weakness
LOL yeah yeah yeah, you're a man! LOL. J/K Fact of the matter is, she is gonna do what she wants to do. She may really like you, but wants to "test drive" this other guy first you know. And for that, do you really want to be her "second choice", the back up plan once the goods are tasted? How much do you like her? Crush, Lust, Twitter-pated, ....................l-o-v-e???????? Please don't say the last one, or i will have to reach out and smack ya!
--Emi
--Emi
Oh i know what it is --- It's called "disney fairytale bull****"
But yeah, girls suck!! Thats why 99.9% of my friends are guys. I am just not into the whole "head-game, drama crap". Never was, lol, which is funny comming from someone who was coaching cheer leading, on the dance team in high school, and models. HMMM, I guess I kinda Fu**ed up the sterotype y'all had goin huh! LOL
--EMI
But yeah, girls suck!! Thats why 99.9% of my friends are guys. I am just not into the whole "head-game, drama crap". Never was, lol, which is funny comming from someone who was coaching cheer leading, on the dance team in high school, and models. HMMM, I guess I kinda Fu**ed up the sterotype y'all had goin huh! LOL
--EMI
I've been refraining from this thread but here goes. The key is not to act like an ***hole, just don't be a dolt either. Women (actually people, this includes you guys) want what they can't have. How many women do you see chase after guys who aren't interested in them and just use them for one thing or another, same goes for guys, how many times you see a girl being followed by guys who'll do anything to be with her yet she uses them and miss treats them. Human nature. For every girl you talk about like this know that there's one that likes you, and you don't even know she exists, maybe you think she's too fat, or a nerd, or you think of her as JAF (just a friend). How do you know she's not the one. Just learn to recognize when a woman isn't interested and focus your attention else where ASAP, it'll benefit you in the long run trust me. There a plenty of fish in the sea(yeah I know cliche, but it fits on this forum and it's true.) Dress nice, treat women with respect, and if they don't treat you with it in return cut them loose quick. Don't be an *** I worked that angle and well it was great for a while, you only get women that want to prove that they can change you, then get bored quickly with you, as Delgado said it works short term. Choose a path of truth, righteousness, and be a gentleman. However if she gives you that line "You're too nice." sock her in the jaw, hopefully that'll change her mind. (I kid, I kid, it's a joke) If you impress her friends before her you have a better chance of charming her.
OK, I'm not Cassanova, but I'll give you fellas a little unsolicited advice (Trust me, it works on both sides of the Atlantic, I've spent an obnoxious amount of time in France...., I've also lived in college towns, suburbia, and NYC)
- Be a man. If she's not interested, walk away and look for greener pastures. There is one who is.
- Have some sack. Ask a girl out if you like her. If she says no, feel free to give it the three strike rule, but once that is up, walk away like a gentleman. No means no, and if she's not digging you, it wasn't meant to be. Try not to take it personally, not every chick digs you and vice versa. Persistance can cross the line into stalker territory, so don't be a psycho.
- It's a game of numbers. Ask out 100 girls, and I GUARANTEE at least one says yes. She may not be your soul mate, but go out and have a good time.
- Most younger men are considered immature. If you want to be considered mature, start with how you dress. Take a look at your style, and clean up your act. ZZ Top said it best - "Every girl's crazy bout a sharp dressed man..."
- Show a girl a good time, and word gets around. If it doesn't work with her, you might meet some of her friends if you end things on a good note. Also, don't just take her to a movie and dinner. Try a park, museum, concert, etc. Change it up, keep it interesting.
Good guys don't always finish last, and it usually happens when you aren't trying. Be yourself, and you never know. I met my wife at a concert in a local bar at a mutual friends band's show. That was three years ago. She's hot, fun, my best friend and I'm thrilled everyday to see her. Point is, you cats are young, and will get your hearts broken a few times. Deal with it, make yourselfs stronger not too guarded, and you'll get what you want. I'll expect to see pics with you guys and your new girlfriends soon enough at some fish exhibit, and then I can say I told you so. Rock on
- Be a man. If she's not interested, walk away and look for greener pastures. There is one who is.
- Have some sack. Ask a girl out if you like her. If she says no, feel free to give it the three strike rule, but once that is up, walk away like a gentleman. No means no, and if she's not digging you, it wasn't meant to be. Try not to take it personally, not every chick digs you and vice versa. Persistance can cross the line into stalker territory, so don't be a psycho.
- It's a game of numbers. Ask out 100 girls, and I GUARANTEE at least one says yes. She may not be your soul mate, but go out and have a good time.
- Most younger men are considered immature. If you want to be considered mature, start with how you dress. Take a look at your style, and clean up your act. ZZ Top said it best - "Every girl's crazy bout a sharp dressed man..."
- Show a girl a good time, and word gets around. If it doesn't work with her, you might meet some of her friends if you end things on a good note. Also, don't just take her to a movie and dinner. Try a park, museum, concert, etc. Change it up, keep it interesting.
Good guys don't always finish last, and it usually happens when you aren't trying. Be yourself, and you never know. I met my wife at a concert in a local bar at a mutual friends band's show. That was three years ago. She's hot, fun, my best friend and I'm thrilled everyday to see her. Point is, you cats are young, and will get your hearts broken a few times. Deal with it, make yourselfs stronger not too guarded, and you'll get what you want. I'll expect to see pics with you guys and your new girlfriends soon enough at some fish exhibit, and then I can say I told you so. Rock on
