Worste Emotional Pain You Ever Experienced

[OddBallKeeper]

Wow these stories are really sad. I am so sorry for all your Losses.
Im 14 and this is my story lol.(I must sound like a newbie at an AA meeting)
I found out my Grandad had Lung Cancer and Osophagul Cancer last November and was going to die within 6 months. At first i told myself to be a man and not cry. He was the best person i ever knew. He would tell me the best stories the same ones everyday . He was a very proud man very clever(or so he thought ) I had such a good time with him. He suffered a heart attack in December. He stood up told my uncle he was having a Heart Attack, he walked out to the ambulance like he had nothing wrong with him. We found out that it was a very bad heart attack. He lived through it. I saw him on the 17th of January in the hospital, He couldnt talk with all the morphine in his system. He Passed away on the 18th of January at 11:30 AM. I didnt cry until the day that he was in the coffin in my Grannies house. I cried because i saw my Granny Crying. But when the people came to bring him to the Church for the Funeral i cried like never before. I couldnt breathe i was panicking and just freaking out. I never realised how much i loved jim until the last day i saw him.... He was a Legend a true Irishman and i hope to follow in his footsteps. Rest in Peace Audeon McHugh.

 

[SumoNinja]

thanks everyone, i appreciate every word more than you know

thanks for sharing for those of you who did. you just have to remember that you can't give up, think about what that person you lost would want you to do,.............. like in my sig, keep on truckin

enjoy the time you have with your loved ones

 

[BrAveHrT]

Sorry bro, that was really sad to read...I'm sure it must have hurt you even worse...I hope time will heal your pain bro..slowly but surely

 

[jams]

I will never say the words "I know how you feel" when it comes to the loss of a loved one... What I will say is I am truelly sorry for your loss. I too have felt the pain of loosing a loved one. I lost my late husband 5 years ago next month to renal cell carcinoma (kidney cancer). He was 47 when he passed away and I was 35. I thought I was going to die with him and wanted to for a while... I held him in my arms, his breathing changed, he looked at me straight in the eye and said three words " I LOVE YOU", he took one more breath...exhaled slowly...and was gone. Looking back I think the hardest part was looking up, I heard a noise in the doorway of our bedroom (he died at home), and seeing our 11 year old daughter standing there. "Daddy????" she said...only he couldn't hear here anymore... That was 5 years ago and although I did get remarried a year ago, to a very wonderful man, I will never be quite the same person I was. I can't even imagine if I lost one of my children... All I can say is keep breathing...and prayer works. You will be in my prayers.

 

[m1ste2tea]

thank you all for sharing that. these moments that people talk about make me realize how lucky or blessed I have been to be spared from a powerful and sad experience such as those shared.

 

[jlnguyen74]

My belated condolences to your family, Su. I didn't realize you've been through such a tough time of your life.

 

[albyoscar]

when i was 19 i met a girl that already had a child, well i got her pregnant and 3 months later i was married. 1 week before my daughters first birthday i went fishing with my father n law during that time her 3 year old got some matches and set the trailer we were staying in on fire both of the kids were in there " it was a pull along that set behind her dads house" and they both perished in the fire . that was over 20 years ago but it still haunts me

 

[RESET]

A week before Thanksgiving 2008 I got a call from my sister asking if I was going to make it home for the holiday. I live about 4 hours from "home" and get back there several times a year. That holiday I was a little strapped for cash so I told her that I was going to have to wait for c-mas. About three hours later I got a call from my dad saying that my sister was in a coma and in the hospital. They did not know what was wrong. This was a Thursday night. I told my dad that I would be there Friday night because I didn't have any spare vacation. I figured everything would be fine. I got there Friday night and was told that she had not gotten any better. Turned out that her heart stopped working for a few minutes. This, coupled with the time it took to get to her in the bathroom stall, resulted in severe brain damage. Saturday, several tests were done and it was determined that she was brain dead. We decided to take her off of life support and followed her wishes to be an organ donor. The hospital kept her body alive until Sunday so that they could retrieve the organs. My sister died November 23 2008, Her 29th birthday would have been December 6th that year.

 

[Warborg]

My wife had a miscarriage 3 months in(1st child). We were trying for years to have kids. We had already seen the heartbeat during normal checkups and next appointment was to find out the sex.

This happened in 2007.

 

[studd muffin]

I am so sorry for your loss svang.

Mine was when my favorite uncle passed away in 2003. He was the 37th homicide victim in that year. He was going to turn 16 in another day. I was 12 years old and my uncle was 15. He was the youngest of all of my uncles. My cousins and I would always play with him and he would take us to the mall, buy us slurpees, and take us to the petstore and buy us bettas. The day he left us he went with a friend to another friends house on a bike. My uncle was being "pumped" on the handle bar of the bike and his friend was the one who was peddling. On their way back home there were a couple of guys that were the same age as my uncle and his friend. As my uncle and his friend walked by my uncles friend said "what are you looking at". The oldest guy (at the time he was 16) pulled out a gun and started shooting at both my uncle and his friend. My uncles friend swerved the bike trying to dodge the bullets. My uncle got shot twice and his friend just had bullet holes in his shirt. My uncles friend peddled to a local grocery store to call for help. My uncle died while he was still in surgery. While he was still in surgery one of my uncles called and told me about what had happen to my uncle. At that time they didnt know if he died or not yet. I hung up the phone and fell to my knee's and started crying. I yelled out loud that my uncle has been shot. My mom started crying and my dad tried to comfort my sister, mom, and I. My uncle who called me about the shooting called my moms cell phone and told her to come to the hospital. After an hour of leaving the house my mom called and said my uncle died during the operation. It was the saddest phone calls I have ever received.

Two days after my uncle passed away they found the guy who killed my uncle. He was affiliated with a gang and was charged as an adult. The police did an investigation to see if my uncle and his friend were affiliated with a gang. The investigation concluded that they both were not affiliated with a gang. After the police was done with their investigation they gave my uncles bike back to us. It was the one my parents bought him when they bought mine. I have his bike to this very day and dont plan on throwing it out.

I miss my uncle very much and wish this had never happen. PLEASE spend time with your family because you never know when they are going to go. Cherish every moment that you have with your loved one.