Maybe when you spend more time on this website, than on your job, when you're at the job... Also if tell your spouse "We really don't need groceries this week, do we?" after visiting a lfs. And he doesn't even put up a fight, just nods and gives in.
When you are willing to drive 3 hrs to meet someone at 1:20 am to pick up a fish! And get to bed at 5am because you have to make sure the fish is doing well in it's new home.
When your told you need to get $100,000 worth of renters insurance in order to keep your tanks running...And then ask your landlord if you get $200,000 worth...Can you add MORE tanks!