i'd say listen to hybridherp and stop avoiding him like u are doin right now. Learn from others who done it before you, thats how i go at it
Yah, I apologize if I'm sounding a bit like a dick or anything (half the time I comment I'm between classes or bored in a class) but if you want the proper help, you'll need to give information and be willing to accept that certain things can't be done certain ways.
I learned the hard way what happens when you rush into nice plants, and I'm still dealing with the algae that I can't kill that happened when I increased my light, didn't have enough plants, didn't dose ferts properly, and had no co2.
Planted tanks are all about patience and balance, and even once you get plants growing, you still have to trim them to keep them growing well. HC for example, if left untrimmed, will lift up from the bottom of the tank and make a giant mess floating at the top. I avoid wanting that plant because, while pretty, it requires a heck of a lot of maintenance and that's just not something I want to deal with right now.
There are other carpeting plants I like a great deal, but, there's little point in going more in depth on the subject if you aren't willing to learn it. Just trying to help you avoid the mistakes I made.
I'm by no means an expert, but I'm not new to the game either.